Is Your Teen's Friend Overly Friendly Or Intrusive?

Have you ever met a kid who you had a bad feeling about? Teens make a lot of friends due to their time at school, spending all evening hanging out or playing around with them. As parents you wish to have kids who will be good to your kid as well as be a good influence on them. While the kid you have a bad feeling about may not be a bad kid themselves, they may have habits or beliefs that may not agree with you or your teen, these situations can lead to nasty fights or drama in your teen’s life. There are also teens who love gossiping and may take advantage of your teens naivety. But how to do you tell apart a kid who actually cares for your teen from a kid who wished to gain something out of their friendship? Here are some signs that tell whether the teen is intrusive or just friendly. If you notice any of these signs, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with your teen about their friendship. Encourage them to set boundaries and prioritize their own well-being.

They are in constant contactExcessive texting, calling, or messaging can be a sign of unhealthy dependence or obsession. Your teen may feel pressured to be constantly available, which can interfere with their schoolwork, hobbies, and other relationships. They are always boundary pushingA friend who disregards your teen's personal boundaries may be manipulative or disrespectful. This can include borrowing things without permission, sharing private information, or trying to control your teen's social life. They show jealousy and possessivenessA friend who is jealous or possessive may try to isolate your teen from other friends or family members. This can be a sign of insecurity or a desire for control. While sometimes friends can be a little defence of their friendship and relationship, too much of it is not healthy! They are a negative influenceA toxic friend may encourage your teen to engage in risky behaviours, such as substance abuse, vandalism, or skipping school. It's important to be aware of the influence this friend may have on your teen's choices. They are surrounded with drama and conflictA friend who constantly creates drama or conflict can be a source of stress and anxiety for your teen. This can lead to arguments, misunderstandings, and damaged relationships. You will also notice how they always have one drama or the other happening all the time! They exhibit controlling behaviour A controlling friend may try to dictate your teen's choices, such as what to wear, who to hang out with, or what activities to participate in. This can stifle your teen's individuality and independence. They are emotionally manipulativeA manipulative friend may use guilt, threats, or emotional blackmail to get their way. This can be emotionally draining for your teen and can lead to feelings of resentment and anger. You will notice how they are using their emotions to get their way and this can hurt your child deeply. They show disrespectful behaviourA friend who disrespects your teen or your family can create tension and conflict. It's important to set boundaries and let your teen know that you won't tolerate disrespectful behaviour.